Tag: women

When a United fan goes to City

Venturing into rival territory, I spent a day exploring Manchester City’s ground on an Etihad Stadium tour and got to watch the first ever women’s Manchester derby.

I grew up as a Manchester United fan. In my teens I was pretty obsessed and spent hours reading and learning about the team, going to games when I could afford to and plastering my bedroom walls with Man Utd posters. I even spoke about the history of the team for the oral part of my O Level English exam.

Then I moved away and wasn’t able to keep up-to-date. By the time I eventually returned to Manchester the team I’d loved (and the game in general) had changed so much it was as though my team didn’t exist anymore.

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Is Sweden Dangerous for Women?

Should I be worried on my trip to Sweden this summer?

I keep seeing headlines and Facebook posts about how Sweden is the rape capital of Europe and how the police are advising women not to go out alone at night.

Is there anything to all this or has it got more to do with the fact Sweden has opened its doors to numerous refugees and for many people refugees = bad people and an increase in crime? Continue reading “Is Sweden Dangerous for Women?”

Learning to be a Developed Woman

A weekend spent developing skills and learning about inspirational women.

I spent this weekend on a Women’s Development course.

I was offered a place on the course by the teaching union of which I am a member. As I’m always up for a bit of self-development I jumped at the opportunity. Of course, the fact that it was a free course and included a stay in a posh hotel had nothing to do with it!

Over the weekend I learnt the stories of many strong and determined women who stood up for themselves and other women and achieved many of the things we take for granted today. Not just the biggies, like getting the vote, that everyone’s already heard of, but things like being able to own your own bank account or get a mortgage without having to defer to your  husband and rape in marriage being made illegal. When do you think that law was passed? I was astounded to find out it was only in 1991.

As well gathering inspiration from these women we had a practical session on learning how to chair a meeting and finished with a grand finale where we were given just 15 minutes to write a powerful speech on an issue affecting teaching and then had to stand up in front of everyone and deliver the speech.

I’m used to standing up in front of people and talking, but my audience is usually much younger and less qualified than me. And most of the time they’re not listening anyway. It was a whole different ballgame to have to stand up in front of a cohort of my peers and speak passionately, articulately and knowledgeably on a topic I’d only had 15 minutes to prepare!

As I’d quite like to have a go a public speaking, whether it’s as a motivational speaker or just trying to flog my book (if I ever get round to finishing it), I felt that this was a really worthwhile activity.

But as well as getting to hone some important skills, learning a lot about inspirational women, eating good food and sleeping in a posh bed, I also got to meet some interesting and fun women and now have an email network to keep in touch with.

I’m well and truly developed.